Friday, June 22, 2007

9 Fallen Firefighters of Charleston,SC

Please read this and pray for the families of these firefighters. One of my good friends, Lauren, her best friend is one of these fallen firefighters. He was only 27 years old, the same age as Jason, well almost. All i could do was think about her today and i hoped that she was okay. I got a chance to talk to her after work and she is alright, she doesn't want to talk much about it as it hurts too much. There was a community memorial in the building connected to my work, I didn't get a chance to go see as I was working; but the sound of the bagpipes playing were enough to bring tears to my eyes. Seeing all the fire trucks and police cars and people crying made me cry too. I think the hardest part was for me was to see this little girl, maybe about 2 or 3 with her mom and then reading Lauren's friend's obituary. He has 2 small children and he will not see them grow up. That is really hard for me to comprehend. Most if not all of the firefighters left behind wives, children, parents, and relatives. This is extremely sad and frustrating for me to understand. Why did this have to happen? I don't know why but I have become very emotional when I hear of or see bad things happen. whatever, this is not about me. Please Pray. -Lisa

this article can be found at : www.chron.com

Charleston mourns 9 firefighters killed in warehouse
By RUSS BYNUMAssociated Press
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CHARLESTON, S.C. — One coached football when he wasn't fighting fires. Another cut hair at a barbershop. Yet another was known for quoting the Bible. They called each other nicknames like "Squirrel" and "Lightning."
On Tuesday, this city on the South Carolina coast mourned them all: nine firefighters killed inside a burning furniture store in the nation's worst loss of firefighters since the 2001 World Trade Center attack.
"They did exactly what they were trained to do," fire Chief Rusty Thomas said.
They went into the burning building on Monday in search of two employees who had been reported to be trapped inside.
One employee made it out. The other, Jonathan Tyrell, said he banged with a hammer, hoping someone would find him, and a firefighter was eventually able to pull him out.
"I hugged him and told him 'thank you' over and over," Tyrell said in an interview aired today on CBS' The Early Show.
The cause of the fire at the Sofa Super Store was under investigation, though arson was not suspected.
The blaze apparently started in an outdoor trash bin, then quickly engulfed the store and its adjacent warehouse as firefighters tried to put down the flames, The Post and Courier of Charleston reported today. As it spread to the building, a door blew open and the flames swept in.
"We tried to close the door, but we couldn't," Charleston Assistant Fire Chief Larry Garvin told the newspaper.
He said firefighters started bringing in hoses, but they didn't stand a chance as the sofa and chair material ignited. The men were spread out in teams when the roof collapsed, Charleston Fire Capt. Jake Jenkins told the newspaper.
The rows of sofas and mattresses were stacked five and six high on racks in the cavernous warehouse, a corrugated-metal structure next to a gas station.
Capt. Jeff Harrison said the firefighters inside might have fallen victim to a flashover, in which gases heat a building and its contents so intensely that they burst into flames. One witness described what looked like a tornado of fire.
Buildings with lots of furniture are especially vulnerable, because of the wood lacquer, polyurethane foam and other combustible materials that can reach flashover at a relatively low temperature — sometimes within minutes of a fire's outset.
"When they called it in, the fire wasn't all that large at the time," said Harrison, who lost three of his crew in the fire.
"By the time they got there and got inside, they were just trying to make an attack on it and it got enough oxygen in there and flashed over and the whole building went up in flames," he said.
The building had no fire sprinklers and was not required to have them. The fire chief said sprinklers would not have put out the fire but would have at least slowed it.
"I lost nine of my best friends," Thomas said Tuesday, choking back tears. "To the families, you gave them to us, and we protected them as best as we could."
The men ranged in age from 27 to 56 and together had 131 years of experience with the Charleston Fire Department.
— At 56, James "Earl" Drayton, known around the fire station as "Squirrel," was the oldest of the group. With 32 years on the job, he could have been enjoying retirement.
— Michael French was the youngest firefighter at 27, and had joined just 18 months ago.
— Melvin Champaign was nicknamed "Pimp Daddy" because of his flashy clothes. But the name belied his love of Bible study.
— Capt. Billy Hutchinson, a 30-year veteran, was jokingly tagged "Lightning" because of his slow, deliberate pace. Hutchinson, 48, worked off-duty at a barber shop. His funeral has been scheduled for Friday.
— Brad Baity, 37, was a part-time house painter.
— Capt. Louis Mulkey, 34, helped coach football and basketball players at Summerville High School, where he had played quarterback.
— Also killed were Capt. Mike Benke, 49; Mark Kelsey, 40; and Brandon Thompson, 37.
It was the largest loss of firefighters' lives since the Sept. 11 attacks that killed 340, and the deadliest fire in South Carolina since a 1979 blaze that killed 11 people in the Lancaster County jail.
The blaze plunged the city of 106,000 and its 237 surviving firefighters into mourning.
Some firefighters wept. Others fell to their knees, held their heads in their hands, or sat slumped on the bumpers of their fire trucks.
Mourners left flowers outside fire stations and state officials ordered flags lowered to half staff. Firefighters draped an American flag over a sign near the front of the store.
President Bush said in a statement the firefighters were "true heroes who demonstrated great skill and courage. Their unwavering commitment to their neighbors and to the city of Charleston is an inspiration to all Americans."

Sunday, June 17, 2007

The line between discipline and setting your kids up to fail.

Well even though we were supposed to have one kid, we got two. I guess a sleep over fell apart last minute. So we had 2 boys 3 and 5. They are cute I'll give em that.

One thing I was looking forward too was making cookies with the boys. Lisa's friend said they really like to help do things, and I have a cook book with a baking with kids section so I thought that would be perfect. So we all agreed on Chocolate Chip Cookies, we just needed to wait till Lisa got home for work so we'd have the car. More on this story to come.

As we "borrow" our friends kids like this, one thing Lisa and I talk about is improving our parenting skills, and I think we learned a lot when we watched Laeden, and the one lesson that I really took from this time was there is a line (I'm not sure on how thin it is maybe medium) between discipline and setting your kids up to fail.

Back to my story:
Lisa was tired when she got home from work so I said I'd take the boys to the store for ingredients and we also had to stop at Lowes for some things for the Grill we bought the other day. So I put the 3 year old in the booster seat and his brother decided to sit right next to him, which I didn't really think anything of at the time. Lowes was uneventful but on the way to the grocery store the little one kept on hitting the older one, and I said if you don't stop hitting each other we are not making cookies... Well what else are 2 boys who are young and sitting next to each other in the back seat of a car gonna do besides hit each other. And I feel really strong about being consistent and meaning what I say and saying what I mean, so no making cookies. Well that definitely got their attention, they were perfect angels the rest of the way home. But because I said what I did we did not make cookies, which I think I was probably looking forward to as much as the boys were. And I thought I set them up to fail, so I guess you really just need to think about what you threaten before you do, and don't let boys sit next to each other in the back seat unless you want them to hit each other.

Other than that the evening was fine, they were a little difficult putting down to bed, but once I said enough was enough and said I was gonna stop coming each time they call they feel asleep.

Next up for Lisa and I is I guess a preteen so anyone out there with a preteen that needs some babysitting we could use the experience.

-Jason

Saturday, June 16, 2007

Comcast

Well I finally received a call back after nearly a month, and they had the bill fixed for the most part, they forgot to take off all the taxes that $350 in porn orders rack up, but they fixed that on the spot when I call them out on it. When I asked how this happened I got a "We don't know", I smell a cover up.

Well I guess I can stop being mad at Comcast for now, although I would prefer not to have Comcast they are my only realistic option.

Mommy and Daddy for the weekend remix:

Well we are baby sitting again tonight, this time for a 3 year old. One of Lisa's friends and her husband are going out or something and have 3 kids, and even though Lisa lobbied to her friend to give us all 3 (without asking for my input, I like kids but 3, I don't know about that) we only get the one. Here's to an uneventful quiet evening.

-Jason

Friday, June 15, 2007

Freaking Comcast (Update)

Well after nearly a month of waiting for a new corrected bill, I decided to call Comcast again. Where again I was told that I ordered upwards to 400 usd in porn in the matter of 2 1/2 days, "Sir it was ordered from your box". Well I didn't have the box... Long Hold... Comcast Lady: "We'll call you back"... Me "Let me talk to a manager"... Comcast Lady "We'll call you back".. Me "Let me talk to a manager".. After this went back and forth for a while she finally gave up and transfer ed me to a manager. Who was somewhat helpful, I explained some more issues that needed to be addressed, got her direct line and we'll go from there. I should here back from her on Monday.

Lisa and I purchased a nice grill Thursday, and again the customer service has been a little lacking from the big box store (The name is being withheld until the issue is resolved) where I purchased it. Thursday morning the website clearly said there was a 50 usd gift certificate that came with the grill, valid until Jun 17th. Well when I got to the store nobody new anything about it, so I said well let me check online and I'll call back. Well I get back home and once again I'm correct says right there in cyber space, so I call their 800 number where they lady on the phone said she saw the same thing I did and that someone will call me back in 24 hours. Fast forward 24 hours... no phone call, so I placed another and hopefully I'll get a call back soon. Well the Grill is really nice and I put it together my self which I really enjoy. Against my upbringing I went with a propane grill, and let me tell you why. When Lisa and I BBQ usually it's a couple burgers or hot dogs or something, well waiting for a charcoal grill to heat up to cook a couple hot dogs is annoying, I need that instant gratification.

The White Stripes

I've really enjoyed the songs that get played on the radio by the Detroit band The White Stripes, so I decided to acquire their albums (legally mind you), well anywho there is this one song that isn't played on the radio but I love. Mort Crim does a monologue to start the song (I don't know if he was asked to do it for the record or it may even be archival footage of one of his shows or something) but anyway it reminds me a little of home. So Check out The White Stripes song "Little Acorns"

-Jason